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SEXUAL ALCHEMY: The Long-Lost Art of “Making” Love

SEXUAL ALCHEMY: The Long-Lost Art of “Making” Love.

If you find, that all too often, the thrill has gone – all too soon – out of your sexual relationships, you may be experiencing awareness from approximately only one-seventh of the human aspect of your mysterious, infinite nature…


“Sex” is a friction of the genitals, and compared to the *~ BONFIRE ~* of Generating Love, is comparable to a matchstick. Over, in a flash…

Sex is unconscious, and not only is it energetically draining, emotionally debilitating, and full of transference, but it generally results in the accidental creation of unconscious life; Lovers part, and having no knowledge of their multi-dimensional natures, can become confronted by the emotional wounds of the “inner child nature”.
It is not uncommon for the parent of the child of the same sex to become jealous of the once-a-Lover’s affections for the new baby, and a feeling of missing out.
It spirals out from there; a feeling of separation, isolation, a seeking, a lost-ness, behavioural problems, emotional problems, and much, much more.
Not to mention the new life that is now in this world.

And, YES: you CAN orgasm without ejaculation. They are actually separate impulses.
You can store your mojo; “charge your battery”; regenerate your body; release occasionally; never release; release to pro-create – it’s YOUR sexuality, YOUR body, and you can do whatever you want with it, and share it with whomever wants to share it with you.

But, if Love burns out, and passion is drowned, you may be ready to ascend from the genitals, to the Heart.


Up to you, but you can’t explore what you don’t know, so why not try every which way and see for yourself.
There is no Bible – “Love is my religion”.

One may be familiar with this experience post-orgasm and release:

“Whereas, if there has been an orgasm, it is the common experience that there is a sense of loss, weakness, and dispelled illusion; following quickly on the first grateful feeling of relief.
There has been a momentary joy, but too brief and epileptic to make much impression on consciousness, and now it is gone, leaving no memory.
The lights have gone out, the music has stopped.
The weakness is often so severe as to cause pallor, faintness, vertigo, dyspepsia, disgust, irritability, shame, dislike, or other pathological or unloving symptoms…. even if no more, there is lassitude, sudden indifference, a wish to sleep.
A wet blanket has fallen for the time at least, on the flame of love.
Romance drops and crawls like a winged bird.
In Karezza, on, the contrary, the partners unfold and separate reluctantly, lingeringly, kissing, clinging, petting to the last, thrilled with and rehearsing memories, glowing with an affection and admiration which they feel can never end.” ~ the Endless Honeymoon of “Karezza”, aka Modern (1931) Man discovers the Timeless, Universal Language of Maithuna/Tantra/Sexual Alchemy.


O, and “Porn is a Lie” -just so we’re clear.
It can be extremely psychologically damaging to individuals, and relationships, if you don’t have a sense of humour about it.

You have a responsibility to the physical, emotional, and psychological aftermath of a union. “Generally” the female is on the receiving end, and will be left reflecting his “foreign energies” that she may or may not be able to process.
Old wounds may have opened, and all of it swims in chaos that seeks clarity -a lot can go on in this current Dark Age.

Abandonment of that process by one party can be devastating for the other.

If you are not prepared to be responsible, it is immature – and selfish – to dabble in things of great consequence that are not fully understood. And you can be immature and selfish if you want, but just know that “this” is an ACTUAL person.
You may end up with a baby – FOR LIFE (a whole other person!)
This Lover may be your baby – for a little while.
You may become the baby.
Everyone: be kind.

Too much Fire is Yanger, dry, parched, aggression, blistering wounds, and boiling blood…

Too much water, and we’re swimming in yin, deeper and further away, forgetting the sun, drowning in tears; quivering, dissolving, cold, and wet…

ALCHEMY: The Foundational Ingredients of Creation are *Just Right* – skillfully measured.
Fluid Fire; the Warmth of Light; the delirious bliss of Fire-Water; white, effervescent waterfalls of star-fire; bright, warm Lagoons of Love…

Marrying one’s own FireWater, one becomes a vast and radiant being.
When two vast and radiant beings come together, universes are born; because there’s space…

To ascend from sex, to a state of Love, begin by honouring ALL the Magnets – just arrive at The Sacred Middle, and “always show up for Love”.
One of you might run away, out of fear, or wounding, or some other rebellion, but at least you “showed up”. It’s what Love wanted.
Communication is an essential ingredient for Loving.
Know yourself, and share your self.
Love won’t mind.
Feel your way around each other… for best affect, sort your own shit out!
At the *very* least, know your wounds, know what you need, and know that LOVE will be more than happy to provide that for you.
All else is cowardice, selfishness, and unconsciousness.
Everyone, be kind.

For same-sex partners, your body is the alchemy of sperm and egg, so know that we are all working with the same cosmic mother and father mojo.
If you can’t find enough info, and feel really passionate, perhaps explore the subject, and blaze a path in the field of same-sex tantra.
Love is androgynous.
The symbol within the Anahata is the fusion of an upward triangle (Fire), and a downward Triangle (Water).

SEXUAL MOJO: Sperm, and Blood are the mojo fluids in the body.
There is no “have to”, or “should” – only wanting.
Your choice.
Your adventurous exploration.
Unconscious, draining, destructive, self-destructive, selfish ‘sex’.
Release sex.
Pro-creation sex.
Ritual Sex Magik.
Nourishing, generating Love-Glow of Sexual Alchemy, individually, or in pairs.

Learn the microcosmic orbit, here:
(it’s not a free book, but read up on it and see if you like the writer, or just explore the internet for more…)

Just as a penis gets erect, so too, do the nipples. These are the ‘yang’ centres; man gives forth from the genitals, and plugs in to the female.
She gives forth from her Heart – pouring out Love-Energy…
This creates just one circuit of flowing energy; out of him, into her, out of her, into him – which is why it is so important for man to become aware of his yin-Heart; the vulnerability he feels there, is how she also feels at reception – openness needs to be prepared for.
Every body wants to give from their giving place; the only way it is mutually beneficial is to open to that circuit.

And it gets expansive from there… include the Soul-Gazing of the Eyes for figure 8’s ~ and even more currents to discover…

Subtle, and astral bodies, included!

No amount of sexual skill and study will ever come close to the spontaneous undulations and combustions of cosmic alchemy surrendered unto in a human Love container.

Sexual Alchemy is real, and people are doing it.
And I thought you might like to know. 🙂

Less sex – more Love!

*~ ❤ ~*



Sperm + Egg = You

Sperm + Egg = You

Sex is the Root of ALL Life.

Relationship; Union; Generation.

It is the condition of our sexuality that creates the condition of our society and quality of our Lives; unconscious sex = unconscious life.
and ∞ vice-versa

Destructive sex ∞ Destructive Energy ∞ Destructive Lives

Nurturing Sex/Sexuality ∞ Nurturing Lives

Sexual Wholeness ∞ A Life of Wholeness

Powerful Sex ∞ Powerful People
Polluted Sex ∞ Toxic People

It really is, what should be tended, if we wish for the Tree of Our Civilisation to fruit and flower – or we, as a people, won’t be able to breathe.

The Secret to our Sexuality, is in its POWER to Illuminate the Mind, and charge the being into a creative, tuned-in and turned-on expression of the Universe.
aka NOT an obedient slave.

From the coccyx bone, up the spine, and into the brain;
A pillar of Electric-Light encased in a Sensuality Suit.

* Religious Oppression ( -ah, SEX *IS* GOD)
* Sexual Manipulation through Media
* Pretend “education systems” – ALL the emphasis is on the monkey-MIND
(distraction; occupation; distraction; occupation)
* Unconscious Parents and Teachers
* Bad Habits/Traditions
* Unconsciousness


A: It’s the sexually-charged electricity that turns the Lightbulb on, in the mind.

Without it; darkness.

Keeping sexuality oppressed, polluted, divided, confused, and manipulated is in the best interests of The Global Slavery System.

Broken Lightbulbs.

Seeking LIGHT outside themselves.

Sex (generally) creates a pleasure-positive charge that can be used to counteract negative charges, stored in the body; this is sometimes why sexual cravings can turn a dark corner.

What people get up to, in private, consensual environments, usually has to do with the alchemy of transforming negative charges, into positive ones.

Shadows, into the Light.

Suffering and Silence, into Ecstasy and Expression.

<Contraction> to Expansion ~*

The other shadow of sex, is not consensual – it’s not about relationship – and it is about power, and severe mental illness.
The most unconscious of all.
Walking Beasts.
The kind with no predator.

SEXUALITY is not a mental concept; it doesn’t live solely in the Mind.
‘God’ (Shiva) is in the Mind, (pineal gland; often asleep)
‘Goddess’ (Shakti) is in the hips (dancing, electric; sensual aliveness)

SEXUALITY is a complete experience, that uses ALL the senses, ALL AT THE SAME TIME!
~ and sometimes that extra one… *~ Phenomena ~*
SENSES are our Windows from our inside to the outside… the meeting place. Tantra.

SEX is Love’s Reunion with itself.

SHAKTI is your aliveness…

This world needs some serious Relationship Education; but only the Conscious are paying attention.

Do I believe in Utopia?
Well, I come from there, so…
I know it’s possible.

HOWEVER – I find myself, in a Foreign Place… with Aliens, to whom I am also the Alien.
But they don’t understand me, like I understand them…
Alas; we SHARE Reality.

Currently Brought to You by Ignorance and Obedience.
“Whoever Controls the Media, Controls the Mind” ~ Jim Morrison

So… I will use MY MEDIA to *GUIDE* The Mind of Society.

I will not even go into the science of it; but our Lips are Sensors.
They READ… The inner lips explore their environment; from the time we are babies, and we put everything against the soft part of our mouths: TASTING LIFE. Sensing Life. Our mouth, our lips; our technology, sending information to the nervous system, to the brain…

Not to mention the pleasure… 🙂
Which, flickers the lightbulb in the mind – we want that!

SEX is a Language of Life, itself.

Do you want YOUR sexuality to be dictated by Unconscious History? By your parents, your teachers, dark society?
Or, do you want to grow up, and make it an expression all of your own… your language.

What turns you on? And WHY:
Do you Love the Fire?
Do you Love the Milk?
The Ice…
Do you Love Space-Exploration, or Gardening The Soul…?
Do You Love to watch *~ POWER ~* Erupt at the touch of your fingertips…

What the Patriarchy is Hiding AND Exploiting:

Mother is The Womb.
Mother, is the Mothership.
The Womb is The Cosmic Portal, through which we all arrive; don’t you think, that it’s actually rather logical to Worship the Womb of society? The Women, The Mothers?
Not the Patriarchal God that Heads all Religion, and DICTATES, from an invisible realm?
Looking out into Space… it is expansive, just like a Womb.
What is a *~ star ~* without a Universe to put it in…

If only society could see how beautiful Women/Wombs are when they Flower… The Perfume of Love fills the world.

Even if her womb is damaged –
Even if her womb is a ghost…
Even if she is not a Mother to embodiments, she is Mother to creation, to society, to projects, to the world.

If there is or was, something wrong with your Mother, it stems from her damage; for not being valued, for being treated badly, once upon a time, for being born into a lineage of women shaped by men… and carrying all that aboard her Mothership.
If she was hurt, and never healed, well – she was just your unconscious Captain. And that deserves a thank you.

How comfortable are we with our own Power, embodied?
Your Body is the Womb of your Soul.


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